The female G-spot is legendary, but what about the male? It turns out there is one. In this article we will tell you where it is and how to stimulate it properly.
What is the male G spot
Oh yes, the male G-spot is real. This is not fiction and is not an attempt to attract as many readers as possible. Another question is how it is more correct to call it point P. And for the majority of the general public it is known as the prostate.
The prostate is located between the base of the penis and the rectum, a walnut-sized gland that a man needs to produce sperm. The secret is that the prostate has many nerve endings, making it an ideal point for maximum pleasure.
This, by the way, is confirmed by research: scientists have found that the orgasm of the prostate causes 12 muscle contractions, while the orgasm of the penis - only 3-5 contractions. In other words, if you connect the prostate with sexual play, a man can get two (or even three) times stronger orgasm than usual.
How to prepare for a search
Many men are full of prejudices related to anal sex. Although prostate stimulation, of course, cannot change the orientation of a heterosexual (and if it can, then he is not so heterosexual after all). Therefore, if you want to look for a P-spot, you must first get your partner's consent. Additionally, experts advise detailing what you plan to do so he can make an informed decision.
Since the anus does not produce natural lubrication, it is important to have a water-based lubricant on hand (preferably tasteless and odorless, so as not to accidentally irritate the skin). Also, be sure to file your nails to avoid damaging the delicate area, or at least use a glove as a barrier.
Incentive rules
So now you know where point P is and your guy doesn't mind trying. What next? It can be difficult for beginners to decide the right actions on their own, so take the following techniques on board:
- the "come here" movement.By making movements with your index finger as if inviting someone to come, you can stimulate the prostate gently enough not to scare your partner, but at the same time actively enough to give him new sensations. Start slowly and then increase your speed.
- Circles and wiggles.Circular and jiggling movements also work well and their speed should also be gradually increased. Keep in mind that too much pressure on the prostate can trigger the urge to go to the bathroom, so it's great for a man to empty his bladder before sex.
- Sex toys.If you don't want to go anywhere with your finger, but want to experiment, use massagers for anal play. With them, in the same way, you can change the speed and type of vibrations so that the partner does not lose anything, and even vice versa.
In conclusion, we recall once again that body parts have no sexual orientation, so a couple can safely practice anal sex in both directions. And separately, we note that if in the process the partner says that he does not like it and needs to stop, you should listen to him. After all, we are all different. You can try it next time it's ready again, but for now, do something that always gives you pleasure.